Илана Либ – Astropsychology of Relationships (страница 1)
Илана Либ
Astropsychology of Relationships
Foreword
Higher powers have their own plans for us, which can be fulfilled with a particular person; therefore, it is not always possible to marry someone out of great love or personal desire. A partner may reveal certain qualities within us that will help us become who we are meant to become in this incarnation and do what we are meant to do, while we, in turn, will help them. All of this can be seen in the natal chart and Navamsha of each partner, as well as through synastry.
Zodiac Sign Compatibility According to the Ascendant
This book explores the possibilities for the development of relationships between representatives of each zodiac sign and representatives of all the other signs. This can be examined according to the partners’ Ascendants, and it can also be checked by comparing the position of one partner’s Moon with the position of the other partner’s Moon in their natal charts. Following the same principle, the positions of Venus, the Sun, and Mars can also be examined.
The Ascendant represents only a partial characterization of a person. When analyzing relationships, it is necessary to take into account all the planets in a person’s natal chart and to examine where the ruler of the Ascendant (the first house) is located. For example, a person with a Pisces Ascendant and three planets in Sagittarius may possess more Sagittarius qualities than Pisces qualities. Or, for example, if a person has a Capricorn Ascendant while the ruler of the Ascendant is in Pisces, their character will display not only the qualities of Capricorn but also those of Pisces.
Relationships between partners according to Venus and the Moon are described in my book
The partner’s house is located in the natal chart opposite the house of the self (the first house, the Ascendant) and points to qualities that are opposite to our own—the character traits of a partner that may not be so easy for us to accept. I have often noticed that regardless of your partner’s Ascendant, they frequently behave toward you in accordance with your seventh house, because these are the qualities that you need to work through within yourself and learn to accept. One of the tasks of a soul incarnating on Earth is to learn acceptance, which can only be achieved through relationships. However, this does not mean that one should live with a partner, or tolerate any other person, who is destroying them. Learning not to become attached is also one of the tasks of a human being on Earth.
Therefore, those who avoid personal relationships because of problems will still, sooner or later, have to enter into relationships and resolve these problems—if not in this incarnation, then in subsequent ones—but later it will be even more difficult to do so.
The renowned hypnotherapist Michael Newton, who developed a method of spiritual regression for studying life between incarnations, wrote in his books that, in order for the soul to leave the wheel of Samsara, a person must learn acceptance and also learn not to envy. He knew many people who had learned, in one of their incarnations, not to be envious, but only a few had managed to learn acceptance.
Compatibility of a Woman with an Aries Ascendant with Men of All Ascendants
The sign of Aries is ruled by the planet Mars. An Aries woman is very active, can be impulsive, and leaves her partner if she does not love him. She does not pretend that she is interested in a man. She needs a partner who will be by her side but will not suppress her or lecture her, and who will allow her to do what she enjoys.
In relationships, this woman can be harsh when something upsets her, but she is devoted to her partner. She wants a bright and honest person by her side who treats her with respect. An Aries woman cannot stand boring relationships.
Advice for a woman with an Aries Ascendant: you came into this world to live authentically, and therefore the love you need must also be real. You should not look for those who are merely convenient (look for those who ignite your spark rather than extinguish it); you should not be afraid to shine brightly, but you should also allow your partner to express himself; strength lies in confidence, not in domination; do not be afraid to love, but do not forget about yourself; avoid those who control you—you need those who inspire you (only then will you be happy).
Aries Woman and Aries Man
A union between representatives of the same fire sign (average compatibility—they may get along as well as conflict).
Both partners are impulsive and straightforward, value their freedom, and are quite independent. They enjoy spending their time in interesting and productive ways, are very passionate, understand each other, and may experience a strong mutual attraction. At the same time, however, they are often inclined to compete for leadership within the relationship, which will lead to conflicts.
Such people will always be on the same wavelength and will be able to stay together for a long time and experience many vivid moments if they learn to make concessions to each other and rein in their temperaments.
Aries Woman and Taurus Man
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the earth sign Taurus (a difficult relationship).
A stable, reliable, patient, slow-moving Taurus man and a passionate, impulsive, forward-moving Aries woman—these partners have different paces of life. When a relationship begins between them, the woman may feel that the man is too slow in developing the relationship. The man, in turn, will consider the woman too loud and too fast-paced.
If they try to learn not to change each other but instead to reach agreements, their relationship will be stable and passionate.
Aries Woman and Gemini Man
A union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the air sign Gemini (average compatibility).
This is a fun, dynamic couple. They find it quite easy to be together. When they begin dating, they communicate a great deal, joke, and flirt.
At the very beginning of the relationship, the woman in this tandem will like her partner’s lightheartedness, but very quickly she will begin to miss consistency and depth in the relationship (often, behind Gemini’s lightheartedness and talkativeness lie superficiality and frivolity). This needs to be discussed honestly, without falling into illusions, because jealousy may lead to the end of the relationship.
Such people will be able to stay together if the man is not afraid of the woman’s fiery temperament and she does not try to control him too much.
Aries Woman and Cancer Man
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the water sign Cancer (a difficult relationship).
An Aries woman says what she thinks and can be harsh and straightforward. A Cancer man is often reserved; he is vulnerable and sensitive. The woman’s directness in this tandem may hurt the man. He will take offense. They are very different.
In this union, the woman wants passion, while the man wants security, depth, empathy, and peace. This is why it is difficult for such partners to be together.
In this couple, the partners need to show a great deal of patience. If both are willing to work on the relationship, the woman will give the man courage, while he will give her emotional depth. Such a union can be called a union of opposites.
Aries Woman and Leo Man
A union between representatives of two fire signs (good mutual understanding).
This is a passionate, charismatic, energetic couple in which both partners are leaders by nature and understand each other well (the Sun rules Leo, while in Aries the Sun is exalted). Such people will never be bored together.
If such partners want to be together, they must learn not to compete but to admire each other. The Leo man should not try to control the woman, and she should not suppress his strength. This will be a strong tandem if each receives respect and personal space from the other. Both are leaders. If they learn to cooperate rather than fight each other, they will form a very strong tandem.
Aries Woman and Virgo Man
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the earth sign Virgo (a difficult relationship).
A fiery, impulsive, straightforward, impractical Aries woman and a cautious, logical, highly practical Virgo man who looks for usefulness in everything and analyzes everything are very different people. The woman will become irritated by the man’s criticism and may react aggressively to it, while the man will dislike her impulses, emotionality, and spontaneity. She likes to act, while he likes to plan.
If there is true love between these people and they try to reach a compromise (he will see drive in her, while she will see support in him), then the Virgo man will teach the Aries woman to think, while she will teach him warmth and compassion.