Илана Либ – Astropsychology of Relationships (страница 3)
Aries Man and Cancer Woman
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the water sign Cancer (water extinguishes fire; a difficult relationship).
The Aries man may be too direct for the Cancer woman, who is very sensitive and may suffer from his aggression, and when she suffers, she will become hurt and react emotionally (this will lead to nothing good). In this union, the man desires passion, while the woman wants security. He says many things directly, while she communicates through emotions. It is extremely difficult for them to find common ground because they are very different.
If the Aries man expresses himself a little more gently, while the Cancer woman becomes more courageous and is able to make compromises, understanding the nature of her partner, they can create a union that has both passion and warmth.
Aries Man and Leo Woman
A union between representatives of two fire signs—a very good, bright tandem can develop in which the partners will not be bored with each other.
In this couple, the partners either compete with or admire each other. There is a great deal of movement, passion, and charisma in such a relationship. The partners understand each other well (the Sun rules Leo, while in Aries the Sun is exalted).
The Leo woman should not try to control the Aries man, while the Aries man should not suppress her strength; he should admire it. They are both leaders.
If they try to cooperate rather than fight each other, they can create a powerful union.
Aries Man and Virgo Woman
A union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the earth sign Virgo (a difficult tandem in which the partners will find it difficult to understand each other).
In this couple, an impulsive, bright, straightforward, and impractical man is paired with a sensible, highly practical woman who looks for usefulness in everything. He likes to act, while she likes to analyze.
The Aries man may grow tired of the Virgo woman’s criticism and react aggressively to it, while she will grow tired of his spontaneity and will also find it difficult to forgive his aggression.
She sees drive in him, while he sees support in her (this can become a solution to the problems in this union if the partners love each other and want to preserve the relationship). They are capable of creating a union in which the ability to act and the ability to approach things rationally will go hand in hand.
Aries Man and Libra Woman
A union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the air sign Libra (fairly good compatibility).
This is a union of opposites in the horoscope (one sign is located opposite the other). The Aries man does not think before saying something, while the Libra woman is sensitive and diplomatic and can gently lead the man toward what she wants. Nevertheless, they can understand each other fairly well.
The Libra woman can balance the Aries man’s hot temper and assertiveness, but if he puts pressure on her and she retreats into silence, the relationship will end.
It is important for each partner in this couple to learn to speak the other’s language.
Aries Man and Scorpio Woman
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the water sign Scorpio. Both Aries and Scorpio are ruled by Mars, but Aries is not always prepared for the depth of Scorpio, who wants to control everything and be in charge of everything.
In such a couple, the partners experience a strong attraction to each other. There will be a great deal of passion, but also many conflicts if they do not try to listen to each other (water extinguishes fire). The Aries man will act openly, while the Scorpio woman will act covertly and through manipulation.
The Aries man is open by nature, while the Scorpio woman is reserved. He acts, while she feels more deeply than she shows.
This is a relationship that either changes both partners or tears the soul apart. They need to learn not to turn the relationship into a battlefield.
Aries Man and Sagittarius Woman
This is a union between representatives of two fire signs who can interact well and support each other. They have very good compatibility. When they are together, they become even more fired up by their ideas and aspirations.
The Aries man in this couple feels that he is not being restricted, while the Sagittarius woman is inspired by his confidence and is focused on growth and discovering something new. They are both very active and will move toward their goals together.
This can become a strong, long-term union if the partners give each other freedom while maintaining their connection; otherwise, each will begin to grow distant and the tandem will fall apart.
Aries Man and Capricorn Woman
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the earth sign Capricorn (a difficult relationship).
The Capricorn woman may prove too reserved for the Aries man. He wants everything here and now, while she plans everything for the future.
The Aries man is passionate and emotional in relationships, while the Capricorn woman will show restraint and coldness (she needs time to open up). She will find it difficult to accept his impulsiveness, which will lead to conflicts. They do not find in each other the qualities they want to see in their partner.
These partners need to learn to respect each other’s approach to life if they want to be together. In this way, the Capricorn woman will be able to stabilize the Aries man, while he will teach her to live in the moment.
Aries Man and Aquarius Woman
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the air sign Aquarius (fairly good compatibility).
The Aquarius woman inspires the Aries man with her desire for freedom and her ideas, gives him a sense of flight, fills him with the energy to act (which is what Aries loves to do), and thinks unconventionally. Together, they are capable of a great deal.
The Aries man understands the Aquarius woman because he, too, is very active and energetic and will support the woman’s ideas; the main thing is that they do not become bored.
The Aquarius woman is extremely freedom-loving, so the Aries man will have to give her freedom if he wants to preserve his relationship with her.
They should not demand from each other something that their partner does not know how to do.
The Aries man wants passion, while the Aquarius woman wants freedom. If they respect this in each other, such a union can be strong and long-lasting.
Aries Man and Pisces Woman
This is a union between a representative of the fire sign Aries and the water sign Pisces (a very difficult relationship).
The Pisces woman possesses qualities such as sensitivity and subtlety. The Aries man is capable of hurting such a woman unintentionally because he can be impulsive and straightforward. He is very harsh for her, which will hurt her deeply; she will withdraw into herself, and nothing good will come of their relationship.
In this couple, he acts while she feels. If she does not lose herself in his energy, and he behaves more gently toward her (for this, the partners need to consciously work on themselves), they can create a relationship in which he will feel that he is truly loved, while she will understand that the man by her side will never leave her.
Compatibility of a Woman with a Taurus Ascendant with Men of All Ascendants
The sign of Taurus is ruled by the planet Venus. The Taurus woman is the embodiment of earth energy. She is tactile, reliable, practical, and stable. Her feelings will not develop quickly, but over time they will become stable and profound. She does not fall in love at first sight. She needs to feel secure and supported in a relationship and to know that her partner values her. She also likes everything to be clear, for there to be no fuss in the relationship, and for there to be physical intimacy. She is caring and knows how to be there for her partner.
Advice for a woman with a Taurus Ascendant: your partner is someone who respects your loyalty, straightforwardness, and reliability; do not look for someone perfect—pay attention to genuine actions; if the person by your side knows how to be faithful, you will open up in a way you do with no one else.
Taurus Woman and Aries Man
A union between a representative of the earth sign Taurus and the fire sign Aries (two opposites who find it difficult to be together).
This is a union of opposites and passion. The Aries man is hot-tempered and decisive and acts quickly, while the Taurus woman is not inclined to rush. She gradually builds a stable relationship and likes to act when she is confident that the result will satisfy her.
At the beginning of the relationship, they may fall in love, but the difference in their temperaments will create tension. In this relationship, the woman finds it difficult to adapt to the man and keep up with him, while he finds it difficult to wait for a long time and becomes bored because Aries needs a partner who is active and ready for action.
The partners should learn to respect each other’s rhythm and show flexibility if they want to be together. The tandem can be strong, although turbulent.