Алиса Фокс – The cunnilingus of your dreams (страница 2)

All this allows a woman to experience more intense pleasure than can give just sex. Moreover, the man together with her feels this moment with lips and tongue – the muscles of the vagina begin to contract, which can not go unnoticed – which adds a special piquancy sensations.

But with women it is clear. What do you men get out of it?

Why do men like it?

No matter what men say, but many online resources claim that 67% of 100% prefer to give girls pleasure exactly with the help of oral caresses. And they can be understood! It is an incomparable pleasure – to see how a woman wriggles and moans thanks to your efforts and skills, reaching orgasm. In such moments, a man feels like a full-fledged male, able to fully satisfy his woman. And, if you consider that with just oral caresses alone you can bring her to several orgasms per night, it becomes incomprehensible – why many men are still strangers to cunnilingus.

In addition, oral caresses of the clitoris and the area around it cause an abundant release of lubricant, which guarantees a pleasant and intense sexual intercourse afterwards.

Research conducted by men's magazines, sexologists and family psychologists has identified nine main reasons why men experience a love of oral sex. Nine! Just imagine.

1. The pleasure lasts longer.

Sex usually lasts only a few minutes, and if the man manages to “get his,” the woman may not: as you remember, it takes her longer to climax. Therefore, cunnilingus, which is a form of preliminary caresses, properly warms up the lady and already prepared brings her directly to coitus with orgasm at the end. Also such foreplay increases the likelihood of simultaneous achievement of the cherished.

2. Multiple orgasms.

The pleasure of meeting with you can turn out for her not only the expected vaginal, but also clitoral orgasm, and that too can be more than one. Several orgasms in one meeting – what is not an indicator of male perfection? That certainly motivates many men to include cunnilingus in the mandatory program of her pleasure.

3. A head massage in the process.

Of course, it is gratifying to see and feel how she wriggles and languidly moans from your manipulations. However, when she at the same time, in a burst of passion, and runs her fingers in your hair – it can physically please any man. Because the scalp is dotted with an unimaginable number of nerve endings and their massaging is able to pleasantly excite you along with sexual sensations. And, if in normal life, men are not so willing to respond to the proposal to massage the head, considering it something unseemly, but during cunnilingus female fingers in the hair – quite understandable and even a legitimate presence.

4. Cognition of the female body.

When orally satisfying your beloved, you have a great opportunity not only to monitor her reactions, but also to fully explore her beautiful body – you are free to dispose of your hands as you wish. Hips, breasts, ass – touch, caress, study, with the right approach, it will only increase her excitement, and you can get enough to adjust the tenderness of her skin, all the hollows and bulges. Well pure buzz, right?

5. Review of the most intimate.

The female body has always excited men's minds. The naked body drove crazy… and now you have a view of the most intimate, the most secret, the most-self that she herself does not often see. And this trust, this sacredness of what is happening, this splendor of what is seen – can bring your arousal to the peak of aesthetic pleasure. So, the least you can do for her as a token of gratitude is to please her with a good cunnilingus. The key word being good.

6. This is fun.

The transition to cunnilingus doesn't always happen in total silence in an impenetrably dark room. Often it's more like the beginning of a game – you kind of get up to her, she smiles, you try to get lower, she's both excited and giddy, which she sometimes tries to cover up with careless cheerfulness. In general, before she can't talk anymore about the intercepted excitement, you'll exchange both smiles and remarks and other emotions of a very pleasant nature.

7. Focusing on what's important.

During sex, you are both interested in not just having a good time, but also to experience orgasms – preferably each. And even better – at the same time. Therefore, cunnilingus, as foreplay, allows a man to fully feel all the spice of what is happening, to focus on the girl to relax her, set her up for the right mood and do everything right so that she gets pleasure in any case. Being respectful and attentive to her needs allows a man to better focus on the girl not as a sexual object, but as a person.

8. You're getting closer.

Cunnilingus is the least likely thing to be done to a woman you don't know well or one with whom the connection is superficial, unpromising. Not at all! A man only turns to oral caresses when the girl is really interesting, important and close to him. And the partner is perfectly aware of this. That is why during cunnilingus a special, unlike anything else, intimate and trusting connection is formed between two people.

9. There is a possibility of “repayment”.

Few men are able to refuse a blowjob to a girl who really likes him. Because a good blowjob – it's beautiful! This is also the case with cunnilingus – giving a girl oral pleasure, a man subconsciously, and maybe not, expects that he will someday please in a similar way. And it is worth noting that such expectations are rarely in vain. The principle is simple and clear: good cunnilingus = good blowjob.

However, despite the fact that in most cases cunnilingus likes both sides of the process, quite often cunnies are refused, both men and women.

Why is that?

Obstacles to cunnilingus

Many people feel the most real discomfort at the suggestion of cunnilingus: morally or physically, due to upbringing, religious or other views. Historically, oral sex, including cunnilingus, has been condemned by different cultures and religions. For centuries, the idea that it was unnatural and contrary to divine laws was preached. It was believed that sexual contact through the mouth was not part of the reproductive act, but an extremely perverted activity.

Why do women refuse?

Statistically, cunnilingus is refused more often by women than by men, to the complete incomprehension of those of the latter who enthusiastically accept oral caresses. Therefore, scientists conducted surveys of thousands of ladies to clarify the reasons for the disappointing results. The picture turned out to be as follows. For a holistic understanding, data from other sources is also attached here.

One of the main reasons why women refuse such oral caresses is due to their psychological attitudes and barriers that do not allow them to fully relax and trust their partner. This may be due to upbringing, religion, modesty, or other personal problems. Many women have the attitude that the genitals are something inadmissible for such close contact, such as cunnilingus, and therefore such sexual manifestations can drive her into a frank stupor. It is necessary to talk, to develop trust and a different angle of perception of such a delicate topic.

The second reason – the fear of appearing before his man in such a frank form, although the woman will willingly give you a blowjob. Here we all need to somehow convey that the labia can look different, as well as the whole body. It's just a peculiarity of human structure, that's all it is. There is no “right” and “wrong” about exactly how the genitals look (unless we're talking about a disease, of course).

The third reason is the fear that their genitals aren't clean and foul smelling enough for this manipulation right now.

The usual shower before caressing easily solves this problem. And in general, Mother Nature has ordered so that the aroma of her vagina excites your sense of smell in the most pleasant way, creating and increasing arousal, inviting to mating. If this effect is absent, something is going wrong. The snag could be as much about her as it is about you.

If your partner not only maintains hygiene but also regularly visits a gynecologist to check for infections, then the problem is in you. More specifically, your perception of that particular girl. It is very likely that you simply do not love her enough, as the scent of the beloved cannot leave a man indifferent. Physical rejection of her odor is a signal that soon you will begin to irritate and other little things, like her remarks, driving style, clothes and so on. There's reason to wonder.

Female intimate odor is not a nasty odor. A vagina smells like a healthy vagina. This is normal and natural.

The fourth reason is, unfortunately, your complete profanity about oral caresses. Once convinced that you do not know much about it, a woman will rarely agree to give it another chance. Unless you come to her with this book.

And that's totally fair! Okay, if you were just trying to please there and did everything tender and caring, but for some reason you didn't bring her to orgasm… that's okay, there may still be more than one chance, she'll just see it as part of the petting. It's much worse if you persist in trying to bring her to orgasm without any idea how things work. Roughly rubbing the clitoris, scratching with nails and stubble, climbing in there with dirty hands, panting, drooling on the bed, etc. Then it turns into the torture of the Inquisition with the only desire to end it all as soon as possible and not do it again. Ever again.