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Алиса Фокс
The cunnilingus of your dreams
Cunnilingus: what is it and why?
Well, how can it be without a definition?
In fact, cunnilingus is a sexual practice that can bring a partner to orgasm with only oral stimulation of the external genitals, without direct penetration. By the way, you'll be surprised, but for some girls, clitoral caresses are the only way to achieve sexual release. But even those who prefer a vaginal orgasm, will not refuse a good cunnilingus.
According to the medical scientific and practical portal Lvrach.ru:
25% of women experience orgasm only from vaginal sex.
40% of women do not enjoy vaginal contact alone.
How to raise the percentage of intimate pleasure to the favorite lady?
This is where cunnilingus comes to the rescue
Already 80% of women get orgasm from it.
Oral sex has long occupied a fundamental niche in sexual relations between men and women, because good sex is preceded by good foreplay. And skillful use of skills in the field of oral sex will fill with pleasure and excite not only the partner, but also you. The main thing – track her reactions and emotions, and try to feel and correctly recognize her body language, which is almost disinclined to pretenses. This way, you and she can not only diversify your relationship, but also get even closer.
Since the clitoris is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones for most women, stimulating it with your mouth or hand can lead to orgasm even without penis penetration into the vagina.
In addition, cunnilingus allows you to reach orgasm even after intercourse, if the woman for some reason did not get satisfaction or set up for a second orgasm (for example, if you managed before her).
For many women, cunnilingus is as pleasurable as a blowjob is for men. In addition to physical pleasure, the psychological component is also important – it is an indicator that the partner is ready to satisfy his beloved and fulfill her desires.
In addition, you will henceforth be bound by a certain secret, which also creates an additional spice to the relationship. Yes, and you cunnilingus can also give you new sensations, because this is the only way you can tactilely feel the orgasm of a woman with your lips, which, believe me, is worth a lot.
As in other areas of life, there is a disparity between the sexes in cunnilingus. In 2016, a study was conducted among teenagers in the UK on the topic of oral gratification of a woman. Researchers organized a single interview with them in order to find out how the younger generation feels about oral sex. It turned out that most of the interviewed teenagers, regardless of gender, considered female genitals unpleasant and unattractive. The study participants noted that doing cunnilingus is “almost a grandiose event,” while giving a blowjob is something cool that is not ashamed to admit to society.
Researchers have already encountered similar differences in past studies. Recently, the University of Toronto conducted a survey among students and found that in the case of oral sex, women are not only less likely to be in the receiving role, but also experience less pleasure from cunnilingus than men from blowjobs.
Still, there is a difference between simply not enjoying oral sex and not enjoying it because of shame about their bodies. The fact that teenagers in the UK labeled vulvas as “disgusting” is indicative of cultural stereotypes about women's bodies. Many women, even as adults, try not to look at their vulvas: their appearance is embarrassing and sometimes disgusting. This approach, of course, leads to problems with intimate health and quality of sexual life.
According to many resources on the web, including the sites “Science. Art. Greatness”, ‘Sexhelper’, ‘Erogen’ and others, studies by sexologists have revealed that in the USA about 54% of men prefer to use cunnilingus during foreplay. Surveys conducted in other countries, say that even there many women prefer oral caresses along with other types of stimulation. The practice of cunnilingus in preliminary and final acts, as well as in case of erection problems, can be considered normal sexual behavior, provided that it fits within the framework of mutual consent and satisfies both the man and the woman.
During cunnilingus, men experience no less excitement, enjoy the caress of the partner and fully accept all the manifestations that accompany this process, just like women during blowjob In addition to this, they realize that the clitoris is the most sensitive area on a woman's body, so there is no more effective way to satisfy the beloved than to directly please him with the tongue.
The demand for clitoral spot stimulation is also due to the fact that it is usually more difficult for a woman to experience orgasm than a man.
First, as a rule, the female orgasm comes later than the male. And, if the man “coped” before the partner, she may lose the cherished pleasure altogether. Secondly, many sexologists believe that without stimulation of the clitoris orgasm does not occur at all, and in most positions of vaginal sex clitoris is either weakly involved, or not involved at all ....
Thus, oral caresses are almost guaranteed way to bring the partner orgasm or at least bring it closer, if further planned vaginal intercourse. Sometimes a woman has the opportunity to experience not one, but two or three orgasms in a row. And what can be more pleasant when you come to the “finish” at the same time?
Cunnilingus is unfairly considered one of the most difficult sexual performances. This stereotype probably stems from the notion of the “complexity” and “mystery” of female organs.
However, the main reason for this reputation is not because women are somehow unimaginably arranged, but because of a basic lack of proper education, which you will get in full by reading this book to the end.
What is it that makes cunnilingus so attractive when examined in more detail?
Why do women like it?
Aside from the fact that for many, cunnilingus is the only way to experience orgasm, the process has other reasons for regular inclusion in one's sex life.
One of the primary ones is the tremendous benefits to women's health. Good cunnilingus promotes the production of many important hormones such as prolactin, which is responsible for breast firming, oxytocin, which ensures the elasticity of the uterine muscles, and endorphin, which is known as the happiness hormone.
In addition, oral caresses of the intimate area differ significantly from the usual kissing and directly sex. Only the tongue can so stimulate the tender and erogenous zones that the wave of excitement rapidly passes into a stage when the girl almost can not control herself. Many sensations are similar to vacuum clitoral stimulators, but even those, sometimes, lose to a truly skillful man.
It is worth noting that the clitoris has more than 8000 nerve endings: twice as many as the male reproductive organ. This explains why it is so sensitive to caresses and gentle touches. And that's exactly why its proper stimulation allows you to experience incomparable bliss, and wrong brings discomfort and even pain. And around it, in the area of the labia and even in the skin groin folds concentrated a lot of nerves, these places are extremely sensitive and are responsible for the excitement of the girl. All the space of sensitive nerves and provides that hurricane of sensations, with which can hardly pull vaginal orgasm.