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Children's horoscope

Preface

The study of a child’s natal chart will help parents better understand the character, inclinations, temperament, strengths and weaknesses, and the needs of their child, as well as build a harmonious relationship and raise the child correctly. It will bring understanding as to why the child behaves in a certain way. Thus, the individuality of the child will be taken into account in upbringing.

A child’s natal chart can reveal the child’s potential talents, which will help notice and develop them in time.

A child’s horoscope can help avoid mistakes related to raising children. Parents will also come to know themselves through their child’s horoscope and can, and should, change themselves in accordance with this knowledge, influencing their child by their own example and proper behavior.

It is important to remember that when studying a child’s horoscope, it is necessary to consider all aspects of all the planets, pay attention to planetary conjunctions, and only after that draw any conclusions.

Ascendant in the Child’s Natal Chart

The rising sign (ascendant) in a child’s natal chart reveals how the child behaves, presents themselves to the world, and what first impression they make on people. Through the ascendant, one can understand how the child interacts with others.

Life circumstances, upbringing, and the people with whom the child frequently interacts during childhood influence the manifestation of the child’s ascendant.

The ascendant shapes the child’s personality and strongly affects their development.

The ascendant is often called a “mask” behind which true traits of character may be hidden, traits that become apparent through close interaction with the child. The ascendant influences behavior, appearance, facial expressions, gestures, and facial features.

Ascendant in Aries in the Child’s Natal Chart

Aries, a fire sign ruled by the planet Mars, indicates that the child possesses masculine energy.

Their behavior is dynamic and very active. They may constantly be in motion. Such a child is, as a rule, enterprising and optimistic. They are always engaged in something thanks to their energy. They are drawn to taking risks. They may quickly switch from one activity to another (this is inherent in their nature and is natural for them). The task of Aries is to initiate processes, start things, turn things on, and launch energy into this world. Continuation is not always important. Such a child should be taught not to fear starting something new; they should not be restricted in their desire to move forward, nor forced not to do something. Let the child be creative.

It is important to teach such a child to keep promises (explaining that this wins them respect and authority, which is very important for Aries).

Aries wants to be first in everything. They will enthusiastically participate in various competitions. It is good to explain that it is impossible to be first in everything; everyone has their own talents and can do something better than them, and that is absolutely normal. For example, if your child sings very well and is developing in this direction, and their friend is an excellent chess player, then you should be happy for the friend, praise them, and not set the goal of becoming a chess player stronger than the friend at any cost. One should strive to become the best in their own field. In this example—that would be singing.

You should not make decisions for the child; you can only gently nudge them toward a choice. They should think they made the decision themselves. Do not laugh at them or say they are doing something wrong, otherwise they will begin to shut themselves off from you.

Aries loves to violate other people’s boundaries, to intrude into relationships where it is not appropriate. It is necessary to learn how to correctly explain to such a child what is unacceptable in relation to others, to teach the rules of etiquette, to teach them not to impose themselves on others, and to politely argue without mockery or harsh words. Parents must pay attention to themselves first of all. Notice how polite you are, how you talk to people, how you handle other people’s belongings. Your child perceives all this first and foremost.

Aries, in some sense, remains a child for life. Attention should be paid to the child’s physical health, and they should be accustomed to physical exercise, which will help them in life. Aries is the first house of the horoscope in the natural Zodiac, connected with the body, health, endurance, and inclinations. If your child’s ascendant is in Aries, then this means you need to watch over your own body and health as well. Therefore, first of all, you should pay attention to your own body, take care of it, and also listen to your child’s advice so as not to lose your authority.

Compliments will provide motivation and stimulus to a little Aries. They need to be told that they are the bravest, the strongest, the fastest, and the first.

Ascendant in Taurus in a Child’s Natal Chart

Taurus is an Earth sign ruled by Venus. A little Taurus can bring joy to those around them with their gentleness, and also make themselves happy (thanks to the planet Venus).

Praise them often for doing everything beautifully, thanks to their good taste. Tell them that they are gentle, kind, and beautiful. Listen to their advice related to design and household matters.

A Taurus knows how to get along with everyone, can reconcile those who are in conflict, and creates a friendly atmosphere.

A little Taurus does not know how to manage their time properly, tends to be passive in social and personal matters, and does many things out of inertia. In a child, this manifests as procrastination, being late to school and other places, and failing to keep promises. For such a child, being lazy and indulging in pleasure is more important than any task.

It is necessary to teach them how to plan their day, complete tasks according to priority, and wake up at the same time every morning. Of course, parents themselves must follow these rules; otherwise, nothing will work. The child will overcome passivity and laziness more easily if the parents show consistency and persistence in their demands.

It will be helpful to spend more time together in nature, visit parks and zoos.

It is also important to teach the child to keep their promises and not to make promises they cannot keep.

Taurus is connected to the second house of the natural horoscope (the second sign after Aries), and therefore it is associated with speech and voice. The energy of Taurus is hidden in speech and voice.

It will be beneficial to sing and read aloud together with the child, retell what has been read, give them someone or something to care for, instill family traditions, and tell them about their ancestry. Suitable activities include singing, dancing, drawing, gardening, and design clubs.

Ascendant in Gemini in a Child’s Natal Chart

Gemini is an Air sign ruled by Mercury. This is an energetic, light, and sociable child. It is important to support their enthusiasm, especially in matters beneficial to the family and friends.

Such a child needs from an early age to acquire knowledge, develop various skills, communicate properly, and learn to unite people (this requires practice). Parents should show the child the correct example of communication and develop this in themselves if there are issues. From birth, it is necessary to build proper communication with such a child.

Explain to the child that they should not be overly talkative or intrusive; it is important to teach them to be polite in conversations. Support their desire to please others, to keep any conversation going, to cheer people up, and to give compliments.

For such a child, it is very important that you are always ready to talk with them (communication is vital for them). Praise them for their sense of humor, for arguing without malice, tell them that they are intelligent and sociable. When talking with the child, try to be consistent, logical, and not overly emotional.

For little Geminis, constant movement is essential; travel with your child as much as possible.

Teach little Geminis not to draw hasty conclusions about something or someone, not to act impulsively, not to waste their energy and time on useless activities, and not to fuss. They need to learn how to plan their day. Ask your child more often what they are doing and why they need it. Teach them to distinguish the important from the secondary. You can explain that people will not want to interact with them if they do not finish what they start, or if they do not show persistence and patience.

Accustom your child to think about the consequences of their actions; they need to learn to think carefully before acting.

Ascendant in Cancer in a Child’s Natal Chart

Cancer is a Water sign ruled by the Moon. A little Cancer expresses themselves most productively in the realm of feelings and emotions. They have an excellent emotional memory and intuition.